What’s it like to have erectile dysfunction?
Perhaps you have never encountered such problems and read this article from simple curiosity. In this case, you are lucky, since impotence is a very common phenomenon. At least 10% of young men regularly experience serious erection problems, and among men over 40, every second knows firsthand what a “flash in the pan” is. It’s indicative that only 20% go to doctors, and the rest prefer to get depressed, self-medicate, test dubious folk remedies, seek salvation from heavy thoughts in alcohol – in a word, do everything to aggravate the disease.
The reason is not irresponsibility, but the fact that few people are aware of the reasons for the occurrence of such a disorder and the methods of its treatment. If your family has been affected by such problems, you should know everything about this ailment.
Much more often a family is destroyed by irritability, misunderstanding and constant quarrels, caused by the fact that the man has lost confidence in his strength.
Harmonious families, where it’s customary to talk with each other and support the soul mate in difficult times, pass this test with honor. According to doctors, in 95% of cases, erectile dysfunction can be cured without much effort. But to preserve love and trust in such a situation is more difficult.
Whether you like it or not, it’s on the women's shoulders that the concern for maintaining warm relations rests. A man who has difficulty with erection is too scared, confused and closed to deal with solving psychological problems.
How can a woman help her lover in this difficult moment?
First you need to understand that impotence is not a tragedy, it can and should be treated, but moral support is as important as pills and consultations with a psychologist. Therefore, everything that can enhance the insecurity of men in their abilities, should be an absolute taboo. No jokes, no stinging remarks, no demonstration of disappointment or annoyance. Such “manifestations of character” can even deprive a perfectly healthy man of love. Very often, a man suffering from erectile dysfunction begins to suspect that he has become useless. The woman’s task is to show that she still loves her husband and needs him, that he is the head of the family, and no vagaries of the body will change this.
But in the bedroom the woman should take control into her own hands. Often boredom, monotony of intimate life, passivity of the beloved and the lack of interest on her part becomes the cause of impotence. Many women think that only men have to provide enchanting sex. In fact, nothing inspires a man as a woman who takes the initiative and enjoys the process! Even if nine of ten attempts to turn on your husband end in nothing, it will help you to give him the feeling that he’s loved and desired.
And finally, don’t take the bad mood personally. Gripe session are an excessive stress, which only hinders the treatment and spoils the mood for both.