How to stimulate a man with erectile dysfunction?
People who encounter impotence often ask a question: can a woman do something to help her partner if he is impotent. First of all, it should be noted that the term “impotence” has long been replaced by the term “erectile dysfunction” or “erectile dysfunction” in international practice. Although this does not change the essence of the matter, nevertheless, we would like to clarify this. With regard to the above question, then, in short, we can reply: “Yes, in the overwhelming majority of cases.”
In the vast majority of men, more than 70%, these problems are psychological, and in these cases the role of women is enormous, because the main reason for such disorders lies in the man's feeling of insecurity. And the confidence or security of a man is mostly ensured by a woman who is next to him. So you can even say that the restoration of a man depends to a great extent on a woman, she can not even just help him, we might even say that everything is in her hands.
One of the most common mistakes that women make is when after a failed sexual intercourse they begin to “wind up” with such reflections as, for example, “he does not want me because I do not attract him anymore” or “he has a mistress” etc. Having plunged completely into these thoughts, she tries to get explanations, find out “why it happened” and arrange real interrogations for the man.
Another mistake is when a woman tries to get an erection immediately with an excessive activity, to try all new ways of arousal etc. Most likely, such a tactic is unlikely to help, an erection will not come, but the feeling of dissatisfaction with each other and dissatisfaction with both partners will remain. It is better not to rush to the embrasure to correct the situation “here and now.”
But, on the other hand, it is not correct to behave as if nothing had happened. Also one should not say something like “it's not important to me, I love you so much even as such”, especially if you have a storm of negative emotions inside. First, it is unlikely to sound sincere, and secondly, ignoring of the problem may lead to the fact that the spouses will move away from the topic of sex, they will gradually switch to work, raise children, etc. As a result, intimate relationships can eventually develop into friendships, and it will not be easy to return to sexual life.
Even in the course of your normal daily activity try to strengthen emotional intimacy in every possible way: show signs of affection, hug more often and kiss the partner, touch him. Tactile contact is equally important to men and to women. Be prepared to the fact that you may have to take the initiative in sexual relations for a while. I can also add that, as a rule, when the wife becomes more relaxed in manifesting her sexuality, she not only becomes more attractive and exciting for her husband's partner, but she also gets more pleasure out of intimate relationships.
Play with your partner and throw aside the stiffness. The main difference between a man and a child is age. Toys are becoming more expensive, but the desire to play does not go anywhere. Implement role-playing games in bed. This method has saved more than one married couple from boredom and helped to restore mutual sexual attraction. For inspiration, you can watch video lessons, photos or exciting pictures.
Bring romance to the house. In the house, everything should be not only comfortable and cozy, but also appealing. Some sex has to be present already in the rooms and the bathroom. Add details that are associated with intimacy: aromatic candles, red accessories, fruits and wine. And do not forget to constantly tempt and excite him from time to time. However remember, it is not easy to excite a drunk man, and is it worth it?
We hope these pieces of advice will be useful to you and your beloved one.